Really?  LoL

Blue...precious girl....I hear you!
You are in my heart and 

Maybe it's my age, but I like to do the chasing. Actually the chase is my favorite part. LOL. I want a woman that is a girly girl. I want to have to do all the maintenance around the house for her, change her tires and oil on her car. I don't ind her flirting to let me know she is interested, but I want to pursue her, not the other way around. I love the roles our nFather set out for us. I have no problem being all man, I want a woman who is all woman as well.

Just my thoughts,
Leon

Balance.  Assertive at the right time.  But sometimes just quiet or submissive.  I think the mutually submissive or mutually servant attitude applies to dating as well as marriage.  I want a gal with a balance of confidence (in the Lord & other things) as well as humility and wanting to serve or be led.  I have the same attitude.  Some examples:  It's ok 4 a gal to be confident or assertive and send a guy an email.  As with anything, just don't overdo it.  When I go out on a date with a gal I feel like I'm the leader ... but a good leader is a good servant.  If we go out to eat I will want her to be served with whatever food she needs... and I will listen as she talks to see what is on her heart and mind.  I am serving as I'm trying to meet her needs and treat her in a loving way.  And it is comforting to feel the same attitude from her.  If she (or I) becomes too assertive or bossy or insecure and controlling (kinda like a strong willed child) it is a turn off.

Balance.  Mutuality.  Dating is like .. where will We go to eat?  when is good for you?  or maybe, How about coffee at Starbucks?  or what movie would you (or We) like to see?  If the gal can't give a suggestion as to where to go on a date, then I make one .. if she does not say no then I go with it .. but I try to be sensitive .. if I want Starbucks coffee but she is hungry and wants to eat at a restaurant then I'll probably go to the restaurant because there she can eat and I can have coffee.

Also I like compassion in a gal (as well as passion towards me, lol).  There are a lot of people out there hurting and NEED MINISTERING TO.  The waitress might be going through a tough time, like maybe a divorce.  She's not gonna tell ya unless you take the time to get to know her .. and ask her about her life (instead of just "Where's the ketchup?" lol)  It would be so nice to be with a gal that was confident enough to not be jealous and compassionate enough to reach out to her with a listening ear and maybe a prayer.