How do you remember someone for what they don't say

"remember for what she does or what she says"

hey sis  let me reverse that slightly -->  "what he says or what he does"

what men say can many times be hollow, what men do can also follow the same pattern

I used to get so annoyed at Christmas as someone would buy a lot of gifts but the sentiment was not there the rest of the year (there is more to the story but I'll let it go at saying, in part, that perhaps his overgiving was something he saw growing up and assumed to do the same .... even if we could not afford it, there is more but I'll let that go for another time).

a friend a couple of years ago said nice things and did nice things but I could feel there was more heart to both his words and his actions --> so in that case I would remember both. and he really did make me feel special and he did take the time to hear what I was saying and understand (or try to) what I was going through.


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