This is a takeoff from the woman to woman thread. When is it long enough to wait for a first real kiss? I am not talking about a peck, I mean a kiss with tongues, everything. What are your thoughts? Also, have you ever asked a woman before kissing her? I have not, but maybe that is just me.

Blessings,
Leon

I agree with you Steve. I have never known a woman that wanted to be asked. They are actually offended if you miss their signals, in my experience. As for the tongue thing, I usually follow the woman's lead. If she parts her lips as I start to kiss her, I go ahead. Of course this should be accompanied by her leaning into you at the same time, just to be sure your signals are not crossed.

Good answer,
Leon

I have also had one woman say that a man should only kiss a lady if they are "friends with benefits."

I normaly ask for permission first.

It should probably be before you drop her off for the night.
Don't wait until she is inside.

There is a saying that goes "there is no such thing as a dumb question"...

But you can tell that the question is dumb when no lady on here responds to it, LOL

Mark

Leon:
My take on it is you must be careful not to inflame passions you cannot scripturally fulfill. What I mean by this is that the type of kiss you describe usually causes sexual arousal in both parties, and since the parties are not married, it is a dangerous place to go. Many a well-meaning couple who had every intention of waiting until marriage before engaging in sex were done in because a kiss got out of hand. I think you must be extremely careful while treading that ground, as it can easily lead down a sinful path. As for permission, I usually do ask first. I have found in my case at least that many women feel special when you ask them first. God bless.

I have been in a relationship with a very special woman now for 6 months , we both made a commitment to stay pure.  We do kiss and very passinately most times , we know when to back off and do.  I refuse to allow sexual sin to come into this relationship , she has also stated this very thing. We both made that vow to God and will keep it.
I do not recommend anyone kiss passinately this way unless they can keep it from going past what right.
I will say this waiting untill we were maried was not an option for me.  But waiting for the sexual part is and will be untill marriage .  Which by the way is going to be in Oct this yr.

Thanks Leon.

Yes living half way across the country is a good thing in that respect .  I hope this all work out for you two , keep her on her toes . Don't give her any slack !