dear max,      i hate to hear youre leavin us. id hope youll reconcider and stick around some.   for a young man you are quite thoughtful ,and stick to your guns on your abstinance.   seems youre gettin that respect thing down towards ladies.
if you do leave i wish you the very best.
                                                      ole cattle

Hey, I'm glad we had the opportunity to meet you.  Please give some serious thought to joining. We can all learn a little from each other :-)

Bless brother, will be nice to have you back with us.